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Post by patty. on Wed Jul 01, 2009 2:29 am

Are you really in love? Or do you think that you are in love?

There is a big difference between Love and infatuation. Some people can't tell the difference,
thinking they are in love but really it is a deep infatuation.
Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy.
There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

LOVE is
the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is
real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your
beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away.

Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying.
But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them."
Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Love is
not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex
so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart.
Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up.
It
makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in
your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If
there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less
meaning. The secret of our being is not only to live but to have
something to live for.

INFATUATION

Infatuation is a feeling; real love
involves a commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real
love, though, is love of devotion. Only the emotions are affected in
infatuation, but in real love both the emotions and the will are
involved. Next, a person "fall into" infatuation, but "grows into" real
love.

Guys, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint?
This
is infatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction. often you
don't
know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus,
infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a girl you
love her, unless you are willing to marry her.

Then, infatuation
is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless.Infatuation
is more interested in satisfying yourself and the feeling than it is in
the other person.

Real love is
primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of
get.. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person.

Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation.
This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if
you are truly in love.

LOVE

Now
you know what is infatuation, we will go on to discuss about the
details of a true love. Love is patient. The word translated "patient"
means to wait patiently for the fulfilment of expectations.

When
you have difficulty dating this girl and she does not want to come out,
if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must
look at the situation from her point of view - maybe she is having some
problems which prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with
patience and understanding.

Next, have you ever met someone you
liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it
progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a
relationship time to grow at a natural pace.
It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.
Love is Kind. Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respects the feelings and emotions of others..
It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy.

You can do the following:

1. Give one another things such as gifts and encouragement cards.

2. Compliment one another. Magnify the other party's strength.

3. Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to
say and make each other feel that what each says is important.

4. Treat one another special in public. Compliment and encourage one another sincerely in the presence of others.

5. Love is
Not Jealous. Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart.
Love wants the best for others, but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is
reflected in the childish statement, "If he is going to talk to her,
then he can just forget
about me!" Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others.

6. Love is not about bragging. Love is
not a windbag and is not anxious to impress. Often a guy will brag to a
girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him. A truly great
person, however, does not need to exalt himself! Others will exalt him.

7. Love is Not Arrogant. Love is
not conceited, boastful,cocky, or stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble
and has a servant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl
with an "I can take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanour implies,
"You ought to be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you."
Of course, this is not love.

8. Love always covers. This word cover means to pass over in silence, to keep confidential.

9. Love is patient with the faults of others. It doesn't criticise and broadcast to the world the faults of others.
Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect.

10. Love always Perseveres. Love always stands its ground and hold out. It will outlast anything. It will even love in the face of unrequited love. Real love will last though all sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses.

11.
Love is Not Provoked. This means that love has a long fuse. It does not
become irritated and angry. It is not easily offended.

12. Love does not seek its own. This is the heart of love. Love is other-centred rather than self- centred. Love says, "I love you, I want to give to you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"

13.
Love does not act unbecomingly. This means that love does not behave
disgracefully, dishonourably or indecently. It does not embarrass
others by its action. It is characterised by tact and sensitivity. This
also means that love should have good manner. Be sure to do little
things like opening doors for your girl, or offering her your arm when
you walk together.

14. Lastly, Love is forgiving. This is a MUST
for a successful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and
forget when his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not exhibiting love.
Love doesn't hold grudges when it has been
wronged. It doesn't remain resentful.

** Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins. **

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Post by myced09 on Wed Jul 01, 2009 2:54 am

oh,..
that thing is so hard to understand,..


love,..?
aNd iNfanTuatioN,..??


crazy,..
haha,..

that feeling is so crazy,..
awehhhhhhhhh,..
haha,..
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Post by patty. on Wed Jul 01, 2009 3:56 am

hahah.
not so. :]

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Post by jm_elizalde on Wed Jul 01, 2009 6:51 am

mmm.. nosebleed?! lol!


anyway.. thanks for sharing this..

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Post by patty. on Wed Jul 01, 2009 7:46 am

enpi. X]]

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Post by myced09 on Thu Jul 02, 2009 1:00 am

haha,..
yeah ur ryt,..
nose bleed,..
haha,..


love,..??ahm,...that is a crazy feeling for a individual,..awehehehe,.
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Post by potchixcore on Fri Jul 03, 2009 11:37 am

for me.
infatuation is only you're infatuated to a one person.
i thought it was just kind'a 'CRUSH'
and love is love ofcourse.
your feeling for the person yuu love.
or maybe infatuation is your love for a person who's already loving one another.
i dont know!
haha :D
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Post by danica :3 on Sun Jul 05, 2009 4:11 am

infatuation is CRUSH.
love is.. well, LOVE.ü
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Post by dhenz91 on Tue Jul 07, 2009 5:21 am

whhoaaa Shocked
mhmmm..
don't know what to say..
LOL

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Post by danica :3 on Wed Jul 08, 2009 3:02 am

sumhow true.

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Post by mriah8 on Thu Jul 09, 2009 2:52 am

thanks for sharing this.
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Post by danica :3 on Sat Jul 11, 2009 10:47 pm

somehow true :D
ryt?

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Post by mriah8 on Sun Jul 12, 2009 6:09 pm

Oh yeah!
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Post by nerolkris on Wed Jul 22, 2009 7:22 am

yea thanks for sharin
its not easy to
identify true love

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